http://www.mohdi.com Millions of Hundred Dollar Ideas Mon, 08 Mar 2010 23:52:05 -0800 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 http://www.mohdi.com/free-advice/comment-page-1/#comment-30505 Hakim Thu, 10 Sep 2009 12:34:11 +0000 http://www.mohdi.com/free-advice/#comment-30505 I always face the same problem with my older brother. We kind of close and we share a lot of things. Good and bad. We went to the same class (he was repeating the class). But seriously, last year he went and met this girl and he fall in love with her! I kind of jealous myself because first, I don’t have a girlfriend for me to cuddle and secondly , I know my brother attention is not for me anymore. He kept messaging with her 24/7 and no time for me at all. Personally, I don’t even believe in love. Few months later, the girl dumped him. He was devastated and yet there I was. Next to him and consoling him when he kept thinking why the girl dumped him. Now that he is single, I get my brother back But things don’t go as smoothly as I thought. He kept searching for new girl in his life and though he didn’t mention it to me and even denying it in front of me when I asked but I knew my brother well. He still searches for the right girl. Last weekend, I was kind of moody and I don’t even know why. Mood swing I guess. I didn’t talk to my brother at all. He notices that I didn’t talk to him and I kind of sense that he want to talk to me but I kind of ignoring him. We would go back together but this time, I walked. I thought by ignoring him, I get back his attention but I was wrong. Turns out that I’m the one need him the most. I can’t live without my brother to guide me and show me what to do next. Not talking to him doesn’t make him suffer at all. I’m the one who suffer. Strange isn’t? The thing is, my father left me when I was two. I left without a man to tell me what to do. Today, I talk to him and I was shocked because he seems to ignore me. I didn’t apologize yet because I used to apologize too much that I think he get bored already having little brother like me. I felt embarrassed to say how I’m so sorry for what I’ve done to him. Now what am I supposed to do? My brother doesn’t want to talk to me and I don’t want that at all... I want my brother back. How to keep the relationship back as it used to be... help me please… I always face the same problem with my older brother. We kind of close and we share a lot of things. Good and bad. We went to the same class (he was repeating the class). But seriously, last year he went and met this girl and he fall in love with her! I kind of jealous myself because first, I don’t have a girlfriend for me to cuddle and secondly , I know my brother attention is not for me anymore. He kept messaging with her 24/7 and no time for me at all. Personally, I don’t even believe in love.
Few months later, the girl dumped him. He was devastated and yet there I was. Next to him and consoling him when he kept thinking why the girl dumped him. Now that he is single, I get my brother back
But things don’t go as smoothly as I thought. He kept searching for new girl in his life and though he didn’t mention it to me and even denying it in front of me when I asked but I knew my brother well. He still searches for the right girl.
Last weekend, I was kind of moody and I don’t even know why. Mood swing I guess. I didn’t talk to my brother at all. He notices that I didn’t talk to him and I kind of sense that he want to talk to me but I kind of ignoring him. We would go back together but this time, I walked. I thought by ignoring him, I get back his attention but I was wrong. Turns out that I’m the one need him the most. I can’t live without my brother to guide me and show me what to do next. Not talking to him doesn’t make him suffer at all. I’m the one who suffer. Strange isn’t? The thing is, my father left me when I was two. I left without a man to tell me what to do.
Today, I talk to him and I was shocked because he seems to ignore me. I didn’t apologize yet because I used to apologize too much that I think he get bored already having little brother like me. I felt embarrassed to say how I’m so sorry for what I’ve done to him.
Now what am I supposed to do?
My brother doesn’t want to talk to me and I don’t want that at all…
I want my brother back.
How to keep the relationship back as it used to be… help me please…

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